Inside Colin's Head

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“I contain multitudes”

That famous quote by Walt Whitman pretty much sums up the book I just finished and thoroughly enjoyed: "Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain." 

The book discusses the idea that our brains are constantly dealing with multiple desires and agendas that often conflict with each other (anyone who has debated turning down dessert has experienced these struggles). Is consciousness simply a ring-leader in managing which actions are finally carried out? Or is it more dramatic, and can consciousness only hope to participate by breaking ties between unconscious desires when they're equal in strength?

It doesn't bother me to think that my mind is much less in my control than I probably intuit. We are animals after all, and being secure with that concept is freeing to me -- no perfection, no objective morality, and a default inclination towards peace. Honestly, if we put the traditional concept of "animals" against the traditional concept of "humans," I'll side with the animals (no war, less waste, and the humility of only being one part of something much bigger).

David Eagleman talks of the "dethronement" of man in the same way as a book I cherish: "A Short History of Nearly Everything." As our species progresses we gradually learn (and struggle with the idea) that we are a much smaller part of the universe than we have always believed. Eagleman says this same process is happening within our brains: there is much more going on of which we have any conscious control or perspective.

I'm fascinated by what each of us consider to be a part of "I." Some people might include bodily extensions such as hands and feet, some might only count the physical brain itself, and some might only refer to "I" as the changeable thoughts running through their mind. Consider this:

  • The pain from a cut on your leg is only a mental projection -- your leg doesn't "feel" pain.
  • The brain is by far the most incredibly technology we have "discovered" in the known universe: we can't possibly presume to have but a basic understanding of its inner workings.
  • The brain is also a part of biological evolution and surely has "parts," just like many other components of organic bodies, that cause no harm, but serve no purpose.

The beautiful thing about it all is that it doesn't matter!

Learning about such matters is incredibly interesting for a number of reasons, but our reality is truly only what we make of it. Free will, free won't, and the idea of having a "soul," they are just concepts serving to decorate our reality; our experience with the external and the internal.

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A real life time-lapse video and what it says about modern society

For ten years, a picture of Natalie was taken every day to create a time-lapse video of her life. It is pretty cool to watch her grow. One thing I thought was interesting, is that you can actually see how we forfeit silliness and become more concerned with how we're viewed in our social groups. After the video ramps up a bit, when Natalie is possibly about 4 years old, there's an explosion in goofy expressions that slowly dies down when she's around 8 I'd guess.

Like most of us, it seems she has learned there are consequences for being different. This is a major problem with modern society in my opinion: we (on purpose or not) cultivate a fear of looking, talking, acting, or thinking differently, fostering mediocrity instead of creativity. We're told to grow up and then when we do, we fret about being old. 

On one hand this is just animal nature at work. On the other, society could be so much more advanced if we'd all just cut loose a little more.

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How we feel affects what we see : Neurophilosophy

On the other hand, positive emotions broaden the scope of the visual field, leading to increased breadth of attention; this new study shows that positive moods do so by directly modulating the visual system so that we can gain access to to more information. In psychology, the broaden-and build theory holds that positive emotions enhance one's awareness, and that this global perspective encourages novel thoughts and actions. This broadened behavioural repertoire in turn leads to increased creativity and inventiveness.

Summary: a positive and optimistic worldview literally enhances our perception.

This makes sense to me. To me, negative emotions are beneficial to our brains when something is really wrong; these emotions infiltrate all of our thinking and force us to deal with a problem. When we're not dealing with an emergency, those emotions can really limit and skew our perception. Could spending a lot of time in this negative space create a new emotional calibration that then expects negativity as the norm? Could this be an explanation for how people are capable of lying to themselves while not being mindfully aware?

Optimism, and as I've before qualified many times on this blog, specifically realistic optimism, creates a perspective that's based on possibilities. The realistic optimist is overtly aware that negative stimuli are a constant of life and chooses to blaze onward anyway.

As an example, it's easy to see the modern world we live in as terrifyingly fragile. It isn't hard to find stories of oppression, hate, and challenged liberties. There are also amazing things being done around the world every second in the name of art, humanity, and science. Those topics can't compete in headline fashion, but they are actually more ubiquitous in this world. We should be angry reading those hateful stories, but I think we can do more to change the world by participating and applying energy to the positive movements that exist every day.

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Our brains are like glow in the dark stars

Stars

To me, it seems that the human brain never stops processing a million things at once, it just shifts attention. It's like a CPU that never overheats. And from all the random science blogs/articles I've read, it seems that it is the least degrading component of the human body over time.

I'm sure you've experienced the scenario where you've racked your brain over a particular problem, only to figure out a solution the second you walk away. Or how great ideas come to you while you're in the shower or as you're about to fall asleep (or after waking up from a dream). I think our brains are like glow in the dark stars. They need to be exposed to light for a time. Later, in the dark, they begin to glow. A lot of time I find myself exposing my mind to the details a problem just to soak up the light. After I rest, there's a good chance a solution will have presented itself.

(image from Flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/vblibrary)

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Why modern feminism is illogical, unnecessary, and evil | Psychology Today

First, modern feminism is illogical because, as Pinker points out, it is based on the vanilla assumption that, but for lifelong gender socialization and pernicious patriarchy, men and women are on the whole identical.  An insurmountable body of evidence by now conclusively demonstrates that the vanilla assumption is false; men and women are inherently, fundamentally, and irreconcilably different.  Any political movement based on such a spectacularly incorrect assumption about human nature – that men and women are and should be identical – is doomed to failure.

I think the world is still unfair to women, though in my opinion the equality gap is certainly closing (at least in American culture). In many many ways men and women are exactly the same, but we need to recognize and celebrate the ways in which we are truly different. Defense against everyday battles may sometimes force a narrow lens on this topic, but the long term strategy must involve both equality and uniqueness between genders.

I guess you could just go further with this topic and work towards the ideal that while we are all alike, EVERYBODY is fundamentally unique. I don't like being stereotyped as a heterosexual male, or as an atheist, or as a person who likes Van Damme movies, but each of those traits play a role in the formation of my identity.

While arrogant assumptions destroy harmony, I think light-hearted ones can actually benefit relationships. As long as they are respectful, easily overridden, and as long as people being assumed upon don't take themselves so seriously, I think mild assumptions can increase honesty and break down barriers in getting to know each other.

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On Hoarders and Hoarding : NPR

These beliefs seem to be associated with some peculiar information-processing problems. That is, there are some problems with attention and sometimes a hyperfocus, problems with categorization — the ability to organize things. People who hoard tend to live their lives visually and spatially instead of categorically like the rest of us do.

Really interesting stuff (no pun intended). Definitely something I hope my wife looks into because I think she might be a mild case of the 1 in 30 people that they discuss in this interview. :)

I especially liked how one lady described how throwing away an ATM envelope from years ago made her feel like she was losing the memory of that day in her life.

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Introvert Friends and The Telephone

Anything but the telephone: I have one friend who likes to call "just to hear my voice." Very sweet of her but I wish she would invite me to lunch instead. (Yes, of course I invite her; I usually initiate our get-togethers.) Like many introverts, I loathe the telephone. For one thing, we tend to think and respond slowly, and dead air on the telephone doesn't work. I'm awkward on the phone, especially when just-to-chat calls drop on me from out of the blue. And I feel bad that the other person can always sense my yearning to break free. But really, it's not you, it's the phone. Don't take it personally. (I do talk on the phone, sometimes for hours, with far-flung friends. However, I like to either schedule those calls or initiate them so I don't feel ambushed. I often screen my calls and return them when I feel up to it.)

My sentiments exactly.

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What is Our Problem With Growing Old?

(I sent this to my parents and realized it might be worth sharing)

I know this is a bit random, but I came across this and thought I'd share. It's a very well-written article (in 4 parts) titled "Learning to Love Growing Old." Here's a link to page 1 and below are some of my own thoughts: http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199409/learning-love-growing-old

Perhaps the most interesting thing in this article is the discussion of the baby boomers. You are the generation of rebellion -- against the status quo, and really to some extent, against your parents' generation. These emotions were critical components of righting the course of history and re-energizing the power of the individual in America. This "don't trust anyone over 30" generation, however, is now wrapped up in the dominant mentality that aging is depressing and even shameful. The article makes some very interesting points about the rise of plastic surgeries and how Chinese culture stands opposite to American culture in viewing elder people as being full of life and wisdom (they note that Chinese elders outperform American elders on various metrics). We simply have unsustainable and inaccurate views of what it means to be an older person.

Maybe even more interesting is their claim that our fear of aging, and the way that we anticipate memory loss, a general decline in cognitive abilities, etc., actually accelerates any physical or mental decline that might occur. "A landmark, 15-year longitudinal study...showed no measurable decline in many body functions until after age 70, and very little decline by 81." In short, they seem to say that along with proper exercise and continued engagement in the wold, a positive and accepting mentality of the beauty of growing older is crucial in living a full and happy life.

I say all of this and feel that my generation has inherited this same unhealthy distrust of aging. I think it's evident in several aspects of our lifestyles -- and maybe even one of the reasons I fear being "employed." I'm personally working on re-balancing my approach to life a little; this article struck a chord with me and made me think of you guys -- hoping to provoke some thoughts and reflection! :)

Love,
Colin

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Generational Depression

Epidemiologic evidence also points to the major role of contagion factors in depression. The rate and nature of depression vary dramatically from culture to culture—unlike with schizophrenia, where roughly 1 percent of the population is affected no matter the culture sampled...

There is a near-perfect correlation between a parent's explanatory style and a child's. Every time a child asks, "Why, Mommy?" or "Why, Daddy?" the explanation provided invariably embodies a particular style of thinking and attributions of causality. Each question is a vehicle for the transmission of thinking that interprets events in a way that is congruent with external reality or that reflects more subjective or hyperemotional responses.

"Why didn't Uncle Bob come to the picnic, Mom?" There's a world of difference between "He must be mad at me" and " I don't know, the next time we talk to Uncle Bob let's ask him." There are also the kinds of attributions that reflect a permanently negative perspective: "Mom, I tried to do this and couldn't, would you help me do it?" "No, you'll never be able to do it, it's too hard."

Very interesting to see how although developing depression might be partly genetic, it seems that parenting (and cultivating strong emotional intelligence) has a lot to do in determining if an adult will have depressive tendencies.

Also very interesting to see that depression usually comes on slowly and is first noticed in our 20's. Culturally speaking, in my opinion, it seems that there's a lot in American culture that seems to be a particularly good incubator of depression.

The silver lining in all this is the possibility that awareness and understanding might be able to reverse the increasing rates of depression passed down through generations -- and maybe adults can change their mentality slowly to overcome the severity of their own depression.

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Wise Words About Living in the Moment

Why does living in the moment make people happier—not just at the moment they're tasting molten chocolate pooling on their tongue, but lastingly? Because most negative thoughts concern the past or the future. As Mark Twain said, "I have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened." The hallmark of depression and anxiety is catastrophizing—worrying about something that hasn't happened yet and might not happen at all. Worry, by its very nature, means thinking about the future—and if you hoist yourself into awareness of the present moment, worrying melts away.

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